Quotes about Control
Control and certainty are myths.
— Edward Welch
Anxiety asks for more information so it can be prepared for the coming apocalypse. It also asks for more information so it can manage the world apart from God.
— Edward Welch
"Fear" in the biblical sense is a much broader word. It includes being afraid of someone, but it extends to holding someone in awe, being controlled or mastered by people, worshipping other people, putting your trust in people, or needing people.
— Edward Welch
Since the desires for power and control are in every heart, you don't have to look overseas for lawless brutality. It happens every day between parents and children, boyfriends and girlfriends, husbands and wives. Where there is injustice, shame will be part of its fallout.
— Edward Welch
If you are casual about anger and unprepared, you will lose and so will those around you.
— Edward Welch
Anger is against God because he is the one who directs the details of our lives. In fact, in our anger and outrage, we have decided that we want to be God rather than submit to him.
— Edward Welch
Fear has given birth to extreme parenting. It looks like love, but it is love mingled with fear.
— Edward Welch
What happens when people are raised on a steady diet of "You are great, you can do anything, you deserve it, you are the best, you can get what you want"? Sooner or later they find that they are not great, they can't do everything, they are not the best, and they can't control it all. Depression and denial are the only two options left.
— Edward Welch
Are you worried? Jesus says there is nothing to worry about. It isn't our kingdom, it's God's. We take our cue from the King, and the King is not fretting over anything. He is in complete control.
— Edward Welch
To deeply understand fear we must also look at ourselves and the way we interpret our situations. Those scary objects can reveal what we cherish. They point out our insatiable quest for control, our sense of aloneness.
— Edward Welch
Having money is a way of being free of money.
— Albert Camus
All modern revolutions have ended in a reinforcement of the State.
— Albert Camus