Quotes about Acceptance
The joy at the dramatic return of the younger son in no way means that the elder son was less loved, less appreciated, less favored. The father does not compare the two sons. He loves them both with a complete love and expresses that love according to their individual journeys.
— Henri Nouwen
Coming home" meant, for me, walking step by step toward the One who awaits me with open arms and wants to hold me in an eternal embrace.
— Henri Nouwen
A large part of the father's life had been spent waiting. He could not force his younger son to come home or his older son to let go of his resentments. Only they themselves could take the initiative to return.
— Henri Nouwen
A complainer is hard to live with, and very few people know how to respond to the complaints made by a self-rejecting person. The tragedy is that, often, the complaint, once expressed, leads to that which is most feared: further rejection.
— Henri Nouwen
To give someone a blessing is the most significant affirmation we can offer. It is more than a word of praise or appreciation; it is more than pointing out someone's talents or good deeds; it is more than putting someone in the light. To give a blessing is to affirm, to say 'yes' to a person's Belovedness.
— Henri Nouwen
To care for others requires an ever-increasing acceptance.
— Henri Nouwen
Our brokenness is truly ours. Nobody else's. Our brokenness is as unique as our chosenness and our blessedness. The way we are broken is as much an expression of our individuality as the way we are taken and blessed.
— Henri Nouwen
You are the Beloved', and all I hope is that you can hear these words as spoken to you with all the tenderness and force that love can hold. My only desire is to make these words reverberate in every corner of your being — 'You are the Beloved.
— Henri Nouwen
The more capable you are of mourning the loss of the old place and letting go of the pain that lies there. You cannot mourn something that has not died.
— Henri Nouwen
Being alive means being loved.
— Henri Nouwen
When I demand from others what only God can give, I experience pain.
— Henri Nouwen
Truly accepting love, forgiveness, and healing is often much harder than giving it.
— Henri Nouwen