Quotes about Perspective

Our attitudes cannot stop our feelings, but they can keep our feelings from stopping us.

Changing your attitude from self-centerdness to understanding requires desire and commitment to always try to see things from the other persons point of view.

When I have a wrong attitude, I look at life humanly. When I have a right attitude, I look at life divinely.

While I wholeheartedly believe in choosing to approach every challenge with a great attitude, I don't mean that we should abandon authenticity and live in fantasyland.

Attitude is an inward thought that wiggles its way out.

Your attitude is a choice.

We can change our circumstances by a mere change of our attitude.

The balcony is a metaphor for a mental and emotional place of perspective, calm, and self-control. If life is a stage and we are all actors on that stage, then the balcony is a place from which we can see the entire play unfolding with greater clarity. To observe our selves, it is valuable to go to the balcony at all times, and especially before, during, and after any problematic conversation or negotiation.

How can we get what we truly want while satisfying the needs and concerns of others in our lives—family members, work colleagues, clients, and others?

Framing your solution negatively, such as "Don't shout at me," tends to focus the other's attention even more on the unwanted behavior and may unconsciously reinforce it, particularly if you are shouting back at them. It is more effective to say, quietly, "Please talk to me in a quiet tone." Focus the other's mind clearly on the positive action you want them to take.

You can empathize without sympathizing.

Wisdom is oft-times nearer when we stoop Than when we soar.