Quotes about Relationship
I reached a healthy place in which I was able to stop projecting my needs on another human being. We both came to understand that each of us is limited in our capacity to be for another what is needed, and learned to forgive each other for not being God.
- Henri Nouwen
From that heart come the words, "Do you love me?" Knowing the heart of Jesus and loving him are the same thing. The knowledge of Jesus' heart is a knowledge of the heart.
- Henri Nouwen
The real mystery of marriage is not that husband and wife love each other so much that they can recognize God in each other's lives, but more because God loves them so much that they can discover each other more and more as living reminder's of God's presence.
- Henri Nouwen
Let's dare to enter into an intimate relationship with God without fear, trusting that we will receive love and always more love.
- Henri Nouwen
When we see ourselves in a relationship of love with God, there is always something of a lover's dilemma, a struggle to give and receive, to trust and obey the call.
- Henri Nouwen
Life in the Spirit of Jesus is therefore a life in which Jesus' coming into the world—his incarnation, his death, and resurrection—is lived out by those who have entered into the same obedient relationship to the Father which marked Jesus' own life. Having become sons and daughters as Jesus was Son, our lives become a continuation of Jesus' mission.
- Henri Nouwen
Community as discipline is the effort to create a free and empty space among people where together we can practice true obedience.
- Henri Nouwen
God is the hub of the wheel of life. The closer we come to God the closer we come to each other. The basis of community is not primarily our ideas, feelings, and emotions about each other but our common search for God. When we keep our minds and hearts directed toward God, we will come more fully "together.
- Henri Nouwen
Every relationship carries within its center a holy vacancy, a space that is for the first Love, God alone.
- Henri Nouwen
Real loneliness comes when we have lost all sense of having things in common. When
- Henri Nouwen
But once I am able to truly confess my most profound dependence on others and on God, I can come in touch with my true self and real community can develop.
- Henri Nouwen
crisis of our prayer life is that our minds may be filled with ideas of God while our hearts remain far from him. Real prayer comes from the heart.
- Henri Nouwen