Quotes about Relationships
meant to shove love away. Quite the opposite. We set boundaries so we know what to do when we very much want to love those around us really well without losing ourselves in the process. Good boundaries help us preserve the love within us even when some relationships become unsustainable and we must accept the reality of a goodbye.
- Lysa TerKeurst
No, it's not wrong to need people. But some of our biggest disappointments in life are the result of expectations we have of others that they can't ever possibly meet. That's when the desire to connect becomes an unrealistic need. Unrealistic neediness is actually greediness in disguise. It's saying, "My needs and desires deserve to tap into or possibly even deplete yours." This will never set a relationship up for success.
- Lysa TerKeurst
If the person you are trying so hard not to disappoint will be displeased by a no, they'll eventually be disappointed even if you say yes.
- Lysa TerKeurst
Oh, let it be so noted about my life! That my words, my love for those who love me — and even more, my love for those who don't love me—reveal that, yes, I have been with Jesus.
- Lysa TerKeurst
Whenever any kind of relationship conflict arises, my choice is whether to give the other person power to control my emotions.
- Lysa TerKeurst
Self-rejection paves the landing strip for the rejection of others to arrive and pull on up to the gates of our hearts.
- Lysa TerKeurst
Love can be unconditional but relational access never should be. Notice that the words sin and iniquity
- Lysa TerKeurst
If this now broken relationship was Your best, You wouldn't have kept me from it. And if it is Your best sometime in the future, the enemy won't be able to keep us apart.
- Lysa TerKeurst
Nothing will give you emotional laryngitis like living in close proximity to someone who refuses to listen. Having emotions but no voice chokes the life out of relationships.
- Lysa TerKeurst
In the meantime, it's unfair of me to use my expectations as the standard for their behavior or hold it against them when they don't live up to my hopes.
- Lysa TerKeurst
Just because we extend forgiveness doesn't mean we keep that person in our close-knit circle.
- Lysa TerKeurst
Relationships nourish us in ways nothing else can. It's the relationships that help unrush us. Relationships can complicate things. But they also have the power to force us into a much simpler rhythm.
- Lysa TerKeurst