Quotes about Empathy
Every Christian is constantly invited to overcome his neighbor's fear by entering into it with him, and to find in the fellowship of suffering the way to freedom.
— Henri Nouwen
Every time you reject yourself, you idealize others.
— Henri Nouwen
Those you have deeply loved become part of you. The longer you live, there will always be more people to be loved by you and to become part of your inner community. The wider your inner community becomes, the more easily you will recognize your own brothers and sisters in the strangers around you.
— Henri Nouwen
Those who do not run away from our pains but touch them with compassion bring healing and new strength. The paradox indeed is that the beginning of healing is in the solidarity with the pain.
— Henri Nouwen
Love is not based on the willingness to listen, to understand problems of others, or to tolerate their otherness. Love is based on the mutuality of the confession of our total self to each other.
— Henri Nouwen
To console does not mean to take away the pain but rather to be there and say, "You are not alone, I am with you."
— Henri Nouwen
In the face of the oppressed I recognize my own face, and in the hands of the oppressor I recognize my own hands. Their flesh is my flesh, their blood is my blood, their pain is my pain, their smile is my smile.
— Henri Nouwen
Prayer for others, therefore, cannot be seen as an extraordinary exercise that must be practiced from time to time. Rather, it is the very beat of the compassionate heart.
— Henri Nouwen
I reached a healthy place in which I was able to stop projecting my needs on another human being. We both came to understand that each of us is limited in our capacity to be for another what is needed, and learned to forgive each other for not being God.
— Henri Nouwen
Be compassionate just as your Father is compassionate.
— Henri Nouwen
Action with and for those who suffer is the concrete expression of the compassionate life and the final criterion of being a Christian.
— Henri Nouwen
When we live with a solitude of heart, we can listen with attention to the words and the worlds of others, but when we are driven by loneliness, we tend to select just those remarks and events that bring immediate satisfaction to our own craving needs.
— Henri Nouwen