Quotes about Reconciliation
Spiritual fatherhood has nothing to do with power or control. It is a fatherhood of compassion. But the father of the prodigal son is not concerned about himself. His long-suffering life has emptied him of his desires to keep in control of things. Can I give without wanting anything in return, love without putting any conditions on my love?
— Henri Nouwen
she said, Whether you are the younger son or the elder son, you have to realize that you are called to become the father.
— Henri Nouwen
The joy at the dramatic return of the younger son in no way means that the elder son was less loved, less appreciated, less favored. The father does not compare the two sons. He loves them both with a complete love and expresses that love according to their individual journeys.
— Henri Nouwen
The story of the prodigal son is the story of a God who goes searching for me and who doesn't rest until he has found me.
— Henri Nouwen
A large part of the father's life had been spent waiting. He could not force his younger son to come home or his older son to let go of his resentments. Only they themselves could take the initiative to return.
— Henri Nouwen
One of the greatest challenges of the spiritual life is to receive God's forgiveness.
— Henri Nouwen
Thus the authority of compassion is the possibility for each of us to forgive our brothers and sisters, because forgiveness is only real for those who have discovered the weakness of their friends and the sin of their enemies in their own hearts, and are willing to call each human being their sister and brother.
— Henri Nouwen
Once I look at the story of the prodigal son with the eyes of faith, the "return" of the prodigal becomes the return of the Son of God who has drawn all people into himself and brings them home to his heavenly Father. As Paul says: "God wanted all fullness to be found in him and through him to reconcile all things to him, everything in heaven and everything on earth.
— Henri Nouwen
The immense joy in welcoming back the lost son hides the immense sorrow that has gone before. The
— Henri Nouwen
I am still like the prodigal: traveling, preparing speeches, anticipating how it will be when I finally reach my Father's house. But I am, indeed, on my way home. I have left the distant country and come to feel the nearness of love.
— Henri Nouwen
Whether I am the younger son or the elder son, God's only desire is to bring me home.
— Henri Nouwen
What is happening here is an unheard-of event: hurtful, offensive, and in radical contradiction to the most venerated tradition of the time. Kenneth Bailey, in his penetrating explanation of Luke's story, shows that the son's manner of leaving is tantamount to wishing his father dead.
— Henri Nouwen