I would give her the same advice God always gives me if I think to ask: Go do some anonymous things for lonely people, give a few bucks to every poor person you see, return phone calls. Get out of yourself and become a person for others, while simultaneously practicing radical self-care: maybe have a bite to eat, check in with the sky twice, buy some cute socks, take a nap.

Life isn't about what you have but what you have to give.

What you make happen for others, GOD will make happen for you.

If you're feeling helpless, help someone.

What do we live for, if not to make life less difficult for each other?

What do we live for, if not to make the world less difficult for each other?

What do we live for, if not to make life less difficult to others?

What do we live for, if it is not to make life less difficult to each other?

Let us touch the dying, the poor, the lonely and the unwanted according to the graces we have received and let us not be ashamed or slow to do the humble work.

O divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console to be understood as to understand to be loved as to love. For it is in giving that we receive it is in pardoning that we are pardoned and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

Find someone who is having a hard time or is ill or lonely, and do something for him or her.

It often happens that those who spend their time giving light to others, remain in darkness themselves.