Feeling comes in aid Of feeling, and diversity of strength Attends us, if but once we have been strong.

I think your heart needs to be broken, and broken open, at least once to have a heart at all or to have a heart for others.

Kindness is willing to look in the face of the hurting.

Since the death of his daughter, a consumptive, he had not thrashed a woman; he lived alone.

Suffering pulls us farther away from other human beings. It builds a wall made of cries and contempt to separate us.

It is not always events that have touched us personally that affect us the most.

If your suffering splashes others, those around you, those for whom you represent a reason to live, then you must kill it, choke it.

Once we begin to regard the well-being of others as integral to our own, we overcome the paralysis of competing rights, which rationalizes innocent suffering.

The word "chimney" here was not an abstraction; it floated in the air, mingled with the smoke. It was, perhaps, the only word that had a real meaning in this place.

Suffering is given to the living, not to the dead," he said looking right through me. "It is man's duty to make it cease, not to increase it. One hour of suffering less is already a victory over fate.

I cannot cure everybody. I cannot help everybody. But to tell the lonely person that I am not far or different from that lonely person, that I am with him or her, that's all I think we can do and we should do.

Every tragedy is unique, just as every human is unique. When a person loses someone dear to her, who am I to say that my tragedy was greater? I have no right. For that person, her tragedy is the greatest in the world—and she is right in thinking so.