Love can be unselfish, in the sense of being benevolent and generous, without being selfless.

There is no man at once so unselfish and selfish as a man in love.

I really think we need more women to lean into their careers and to be really dedicated to staying in the work force.

We enter relationships for personal pleasure, self-actualization, and fun. We want low personal cost and high self-defined returns. But God wants high personal cost and high God-defined returns.

The fatal flaw of human wisdom is that it promises that you can change your relationships without needing to change yourself. When

I wish I could love," cried Dorian Gray with a deep note of pathos in his voice. "But I seem to have lost the passion and forgotten the desire. I am too much concentrated on myself. My own personality has become a burden to me.

Today, I see and create a radically new vision, one where everyone wins, everyone gets a seat at the table.

In the world of teams and teamwork I often find the belief that to work and communicate effectively, team members must be close comrades. In fact, this is a common misperception. Although team members don't need to know one another very well personally to perform as a team, they do need to know one another's abilities and potential contributions.

Leadership in a team environment is all about serving, facilitating, and releasing rather than taking charge and being in control.

individual who unselfishly tries to serve others has an enormous advantage.

Love means will-to-good, willing the benefit of what or who is loved. We may say we love chocolate cake, but we don't. Rather, we want to eat it. That is desire, not love. In our culture we have a great problem distinguishing between love and desire, but it is essential that we do so.

When our students accept the call of a servant leader to further the cause of Christ, it is time to begin considering how they can escape the strictly Christian subculture in order to shine their lights of truth into the dark places in our world. This will take great care and wisdom.