Quotes from Joshua Harris

The most romantic things a man can do for a woman are the little things that let her know that she's on his mind and in his heart.

The right thing at a wrong time is a wrong thing.

Terms don't define our lives; our lives define our terms.

Every relationship for a Christian is an opportunity to love another person like God has loved us.

God gave people 2 ears and 1 mouth because He wants us to listen twice as much as we talk.

The joy of intimacy is the reward of commitment.

Women need to remember that if nature has made them plain, grace can make them beautiful, and if nature has made them beautiful, good deeds can add to their beauty. Grace will make you beautiful and will attract truly godly men to you. Make godliness and inward beauty your priority.

I've come to see that you can limit God is different ways. You can limit Him by thinking he can never work in spectacular ways. But you can also limit Him by thinking that only the spectacular is meaningful." - from "Dug Down Deep

I'm looking for someone who will light candles, not just curse the darkness.

Having a girlfriend was no longer my greatest need. Knowing and obeying Him was . I wanted to please Him in my relationships even if it meant looking radical and foolish to other people - even if it meant kissing dating goodbye.

If you ant to feel deeply, you have to think deeply. Too often we separate the two. We assume that if we want to feel deeply, then we need to sit around and, well, feel. But emotion built on emotion is empty. True emotion- emotion that is reliable and does not lead us astray- is always a response to reality, to truth.

During courtship, guarding each other's purity and refraining from intimacy are the acts of lovemaking.